Close to Normal

I can see somewhat clearly now that, although not recognized in the same category - and, perhaps, not recognized at all for being what it is - the international returnee experience in adulthood is similar to any life changing experience that forces a transition. In my case, similar to the death of a twenty-year-old child or the ending of a twenty year marriage (because I wasn't prepared for the loss I would feel) or any significant life changing event on that level - close even to the experience of refugees and immigrants. The fact that I stayed in Tokyo for twenty years and left is similar to someone who decides to change their career or lifestyle in mid-life. There WILL be a transitional period. I recommend having or finding support during this period, especially at the onset.